Julia’s blog

 Nowadays people often say the words ,i love you’ without really knowing the true meaning behind it. The words ,i love you’ are often used as a replacement for ,thank you’, ,i like spending time with you’ or ,you are a nice person’. I have observed that many of my friends are starting to use these words way to soon (some after one day of knowing each other) even though they do not mean it. I think people just do not know how love actually feels like or maybe they have not experienced it yet. They don’t have the special bond to it, although they should. I noticed that sadly,  those 3 meaningful words, put together lost all meaning to some people. In my opinion, the question remains: what should we do to bring back its’ proper status and importance?

  Recently i have noticed that many people call each other best friends or they enter a relationship without even knowing each other. They just want to enter a relation as fast as possible which most of the time does not end well. I have seen many people around me doing so and nearly all of them ended without the person they apparently seemed to be so close to. Many fast going relations that have not been there for a longer time are not as deep as the people who are in it like to believe. You may think that you have achevied a real and deep connection but lets be honest, how well can you know a person after meeting them just couple of days ago? It may seem that you are happy with each other but it could be only adrenaline and excitment - not a real feeling but it still may feel like you are in love.